Tiger's Voyage (Spoiler Alert!): Who's better?

Ignoring who I think will end up with Kelsey or I think is better for her who do I think is the better man? Who would I choose? Tough questions :) I don’t know…

Ren:

He enjoys classical literature, he writes, he listens, he’s understanding, he’s sensitive, he intuitively understands people (not dense!), he will do what he thinks is right for his partner even when his partner disagrees, he’s possessive, he’s stubborn, he can be forcefull, he wants his partner’s happiness above all else ,he’s curious, he’s talkative, he loves nature, and he appriciates superficial and true beauty.

Kishan:

He’s sweet, he has an awesome sense of humor, he’s honest, he’s upfront, he wants his partner’s happiness above all else, he listens, he won’t make decisions for other people thoughtlessly, he’s dense, he’s playful, he sometimes takes a joke too far, he wont understand unless you tell him (elaboration on his densitiy), he’ll stand up against what he views as wrong, he’s stubborn, he doen’t talk much, he’s insecure, he accepts and respects his partner’s choices, and he has a lot of emotional baggage.

I guess I'd have to say Kishan only because I wouldn't be able to handle anyone dictating what I do.

Tiger's Voyage (Spoiler Alert!): In the End

Since the Forum insists that all of my posts are spam and I can't seem to use the link to email the webmaster. >:| I'll be posting my full responses on here and the summery of them on the site. Fyi, the titles of the post are the Category: Thread.


"Kelsey loves Kishan. Mind she loves Ren more, but that doesn't mean that her love for Kishan isn't real. She did try to stay with Ren, she even agreed to start over when the expectations of their previous relationship were overwhelming him. She also didn't want to end their relationship, but HE'S the one who insisted on it and when HE saw that she had not moved on HE'S the one who brought Randi into the equation. At first Kelsey was just friends with Kishan learning to accept that Ren didn't want to be with her anymore. She had told Ren when he broke up with her that she wouldn't be able to go back to him, and HE said HE wouldn't ask her to. This isn't any less valid when Ren gets his memories back.

Kelsey wasn't staying with Kishan because Ren wasn't around otherwise she would have gone back to Ren once he regained his memories. She CHOOSE to stay with Kishan because she wanted to see where her relationship with him would lead. Even if she does break up with Kishan in the future it won't be because she wants her relationship with Ren back. Ren has hurt her badly, and Kishan isn't being selfish for letting Kelsey choose. In fact, that's what makes Kishan SELFLESS. He isn't choosing for Kelsey, he's letting her make her own choices and is accepting them.

After Ren regains his memories in Tiger's Voyage, Kishan is surprised and happy when Kelsey reveals that she isn't intending to break up with him. This implies that Kishan would have accepted it if she left him for Ren, even expected it, and that he wants her to be happy above all else."

Who will win the heart of Kelsey??

Here's my Forum Response since the site insists that it's spam.
"Ren will probably end up with her in the end. Throughout the series Colleen has been dropping hints that Ren understands Kelsey better than Kishan, and that Kelsey is more attuned to his presence.

But Ren is possessive and controlling of Kelsey, and he can't let her make her own choices when they don't do what he feels is best for her.

While Kishan respects the decisions Kelsey makes, no matter what they are. He is willing to let Kelsey be his equal and trusts her to both have the capability and desire to watch his back.

Ren, on the other hand, treats Kelsey as if she's a porcelain doll to be admired and hidden away from the real world. This really irritates me.

Kelsey has saved his life (and Kishan's) several times, but he still insists on treating her like she doesn't know what she's talking/thinking about. I honestly think that Ren needs to accept and respect that Kelsey's decisions hold significance and weight. If he can't do that then he doesn't deserve her." Any ideas on why I kept getting blocked by the anti-spam wall?